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DIY Property Deeds Can Cost You | Avoid Probate Mistakes

Paula DelghansEstate Planning, General

Why DIY Deeds Seem Appealing—but Often Backfire Many people want their home to pass smoothly to their children or loved ones without going through probate—the court process for distributing a person’s assets after they die. One common strategy is adding someone else to your property deed so the house transfers to them automatically at death. But while this may sound …

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Settling Sentimental Belongings After a Loved One’s Death

Paula DelghansEstate Planning

When a loved one passes away, their most meaningful belongings often aren’t the expensive assets—they’re the personal items that hold emotional weight. Photos, letters, jewelry, quilts, recipe books, collectibles, family Bibles, and other everyday items can carry memories that generations cherish. But without clear planning, these sentimental belongings can become sources of conflict among grieving family members. At Rincker Law, …

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Talking to Aging Parents About Estate Planning

Paula DelghansEstate Planning

Starting a conversation about estate planning with aging parents is never easy. These discussions touch on mortality, independence, family dynamics, and deeply personal values. But avoiding the conversation can lead to confusion, conflict, and stress later on — especially during a crisis. Research shows that while many older adults understand the importance of planning, only about 3 in 10 U.S. …

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Estate Planning as a Love Language

Paula DelghansEstate Planning

Estate Planning as a Love Language: Protecting Those Who Depend on You We all have different ways of showing love. Some people use words of encouragement. Others are all about hugs, gifts, thoughtful actions, or simply spending time together. These patterns are often called our “love languages” — the ways we give and receive love. But there’s another powerful love …

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Estate Planning Before Surgery: Essential Steps

Paula DelghansEstate Planning

Estate Planning Tips for Someone Facing Major Surgery Hearing that you need major surgery can be overwhelming. Between preparing for time away from work, coordinating childcare, and understanding what recovery will look like, your to‑do list may feel endless. But when surgery is approaching quickly, one of the most important steps you can take is to make sure your estate …

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5 Things Every New Mother Needs to Know About Wills

Rincker LawEstate Planning

As a new mother, you naturally want to ensure your new baby’s future in every way. For many new mothers, infancy is a time for celebrating new life, and making a will is the last thing on their minds. For others, the process of bringing new life into the world sparks intense feelings of wanting control and needing organization. Regardless …

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